REALITY IS CREATED RATHER THAN OBSERVED. Everybody has a different view on REALITY, because everyone’s emotions are affected differently. Everyone’s understanding of REALITY is based on their own experience which is felt through one’s emotions. Through EMPATHY, LISTENING TO ANOTHER WITH BOTH EARS, WITH BOTH EYES, WITH YOUR HEART, AND WITH YOUR UNDIVIDED ATTENTION we all can come to an agreement on what REALITY truly is.
There has to be a STRONG EFFORT between each person to avoid EMOTIONAL BIAS. Someone may be going through some EMOTIONAL STRESS, or through EMOTIONAL FEAR, or through EMOTIONAL ISOLATION, all which can distort one’s interpretation of REALITY. We have to avoid automatic pilot reaction to our BIASES.
Seeing the REALITY through another person’s perspective, an understanding and possibly a common progress can evolve. Taking the time to enter the other persons “world” could bring about communication that would be prohibited because of EMOTIONAL LENS BIAS. We have to avoid a self-righteousness because that could lead to a suffering in communication.
Do not be afraid of the appearance of being vulnerable. Make the move first, show that you are willing to understand another’s REALITY. Compassion and affection are as contagious as criticism and contempt. Be true to your deepest values in life and a true REALITY will always be attainable.
The REWARD OF FULLFILLMENT IS INEXPLICABLE. FULLFILLMENT IS LONGTERM HAPPINESS. THAT IS A REALITY ALL CAN EXPERIENCE EQUALLY. TAKE THE OPPORTUNITY.
Ron Winnegrad has been a Perfumer and teacher for 46 years. As a perfumer, Ron has been able to express the world he sees through a rainbow of olfactive and emotive visions. As a teacher, Ron has helped others to see fragrance through his own multi sensorial lens.