There are two kinds of PEOPLE PLEASING, positive and negative. The positive we have touched on many times with these posts, it is where you share your KNOWLEDGE with others. Where you show EMPATHY, GRATITUDE and TRUE FRIENDSHIP with others. The negative is where you PLEASE others by giving away your life force to “impress” them. This will keep you fearful and restless your entire life.
How alive are you willing to be? Time goes by quickly. With some it is “mid-May” while they are thinking it is “February” not realizing all that has past. Start now not later, avoid this kind of PEOPLE PLEASING. Allow your mistakes to occur, LEARN from them, find your destiny. You must avoid PEOPLE PLEASING for the sake of your learning process through life. ONLY YOU ARE THE CUSTODIAN OF YOUR INTEGRITY.
The ones that judge you, that you try to “impress”, misunderstand who you are and what you stand for, actually they do reveal a great deal about themselves and absolutely nothing about you. PEOPLE PLEASING sidetracks you from your goal, your true desires.
Your greatest CREATION is yourself, which is hard work, in process everyday for life. No one has evil power over you that you have not given to them. APPROVAL AND DISAPPROVAL ARE EQUAL WORRIES, BECAUSE WINNING APPROVAL BURDENS ONE WITH THE FEAR OF LOSING IT
YES, PLEASE PEOPLE, BUT PLEASE PEOPLE BY SHARING YOUR KNOWLEDGE, PASSION, EMPATHY, RESPECT, PERSPECTIVE, TRUST, SOUL and LOVE. THAT IS THE HONORABLE WAY.
PLEASE PEOPLE HONORABLY, THERE SHOULD BE NO FEAR IN BEING A DISTINCTIVE PERSON.
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Ron Winnegrad has been a Perfumer and teacher for 46 years. As a perfumer, Ron has been able to express the world he sees through a rainbow of olfactive and emotive visions. As a teacher, Ron has helped others to see fragrance through his own multi sensorial lens.
Awesome post! I think my favorite line is “no one has evil power over you that you have not given to them.” Powerful stuff. Thank you.
The Law of Attraction significance of intentional synergies ~ may they be restored and sustained within us ~ All you need is LOVE and from there be the change you want to see in the world.
“Always pass on what you have learned…Fear is the path to the dark side. Fear leads to anger. Anger leads to hate. Hate leads to suffering.” ~ Yoda (from postcard posted today on fb). This is not the Attraction we wish to synergize.